OkCupid: Why is my inbox not flooded and what's wrong with my pictures? The amount of messages I'm getting are abysmal compared to when I was on the site six months ago. What am I doing wrong? Here is my profile. I think there must be something in the rewritten version that's turning people off?
For a 23 year old woman, this feels like an ego blow. Even when I tried to upload ones of me doing the MySpace angles and the flirty face and the other things suggested in the blog. When I compare other people's reports to mine, my "best" face only gets picked as often as a man's "best face. What gives? I recently met someone from a different website and they commented that "I'm a lot more attracted to you than I thought I would be. You look way hotter than in your photos.
I'm bi but I'm only trying to attract men right now. Speaking as a coupled female something Ditch all your pictures except for your first and last picture. You have a gorgeous smile and your first and last picture are very nice. Add a few other candid photos that are not selfies.
Other than that, you seem very interesting and genuine, I liked your profile a lot. Half of your photos are of you in a car. That's kind of weird. Do you have any pictures of you doing stuff? Stuff that is interesting stuff? That is not just sitting in a car? I love those two pics as well, though there isn't really anything wrong with the others-they just aren't as flattering. I think your profile is funny and genuine and you are lovely-who knows what the heck is going on?
Response by poster: As embarrassing as this is, I don't have any recent photos of me doing stuff because my social life is uh, lacking.
