Find a time where you and your partner can sit together for about an hour to answer and discuss the following list. If talking about this list together works better for you, go for it! The list is just a guide to get you and your partner to start talking about what kinky activities you want to try in your sex life. When you fill out the list, imagine the scenario in your head… Do you see yourself doing it?
Do you see yourself liking it? Now, do you imagine yourself trying it out ONLY in certain situations? A notes section has been provided for you to write down more details about your decision making process or fantasies of that activity.
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Additionally, blank spaces are provided for you to be able to personalize this list. More information on this at the end. Are you interested in your partner anally penetrating you with a penis, finger, or strap on dildo?
After filling out the list, go through each of the questions, and discuss. This should be a safe conversation between you and your partner so try to come at it from a place of curiosity rather than judgement. Same goes for the other side, if you really want to try something but your partner is an absolute NO on it, recognize their boundaries and discuss. Here are some suggested questions to facilitate a conversation between you and your partner:.
The key is to get as detailed as possible so you and your partner can begin to imagine how you would incorporate it into the bedroom. At that point, review the entire list again with a more open-mind and sense of exploration. On a quick note- this is not an exhaustive list of kinky activities. If there are others you think of, share them with your partner in the same format that you shared with the other items.
