Skip navigation! July 14, , PM. In the past, we've interviewed several sugar babies both men and women as well as sugar mammas to chat about their experiences with sites like Seeking Arrangement, where men and women get paid to date, and find people willing to pay them. Each interviewee had varying experiences with sugar dating websites, with some sugar babies ready to marry their partners , and a sugar mama considering giving her dates a "gift fund.
Tell me about yourself. I travel a lot, but I'm based in New York. I was divorced about 3. I jump out of planes, you know? Why did you feel like you couldn't go back into conventional dating? My schedule just prohibited it.
When I dated conventionally, it always followed the same pattern: Meet a girl, get to know them, they like the vibe. Then I start my crazy travel schedule and there's an awful lot of stress and texting.
When are you coming back? Where are you? So I thought okay, what if I financially support someone and when I'm here, I have the company of someone I enjoy. It seemed like the perfect solution. So how did you end up on Seeking Arrangement? I started using the site because I thought it was the only way to meet women who have not been tainted by life. What do you mean, tainted by life? I just found that as women and men age, they get more tainted by their experiences.
They create within themselves a negative bias as a standard operating procedure. I went on many dates with women in their 40s, and what I found consistent between all of them was they were immediately looking to find out how I was going to hurt them, even from date one. It was so incredibly refreshing. It was just amazing to me. I thought, maybe I should start to pursue younger women. So I found Seeking Arrangement.
