We asked sex workers, including dominatrixes and escorts , to tell us which fantasies their clients bring up most frequently. Dominatrix Aleta Cai said the vast majority of her clients are interested in sissification which is sometimes known as forced feminization , in which a male submissive adopts traditionally feminine behaviors or mannerisms and cross-dresses at the command of the dominant.
Escort and professional dominant Oz Bigdownunder said he often acts as the male sexual partner to clients who are interested in this type of BDSM. In these scenarios, Cai said her male clients are usually looking for her to play an authoritative woman abusing her power, but in a safe context. Cuckolding is a kink in which a person usually a man gets aroused by watching his partner have sex with another person outside of the relationship.
Sometimes the clients just watch; other times, they may jerk off, and other times, they want to get in on the action in some way. Some of these cuckolding and forced bi sessions also involve more familiar elements of BDSM play like ropes, gags, impact play like spanking or caning, but not all of them. Jade said she is often asked to have threesomes with a male client and another woman.
Other times, the male client just wants to watch her with another woman without him actually participating. Just for verbal fantasy sake. While getting blackmailed in real life sounds like a nightmare, in a BDSM scene, it can actually be a turn-on.
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