I genuinely only want to use the app to make friends, but I can understand why it would upset him to find out that I was using it at all. On one hand, that is a creative way of trying to meet people. If you meet someone via a dating app, that person likely is looking for a date. Your intentions are convoluted when you go that route. If you want to proceed with this approach, you should tell your boyfriend and be transparent about it.
Let him know what you are doing and invite him to participate. Put in your profile that the two of you are looking to meet new people in your town โ but only to be friends. If he agrees and you are clear with the people on the dating site, it may work out.
Yes, you need to speak to your mother at once. Calm down first, though. Your message will be received better if you speak in a clear and measured tone. If possible, be face-to-face or on video when you speak to your mother. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something important.
Reveal that you know she shared what you told her in confidence to your father and other people. Express how devastating and hurtful it was for her to betray your confidence. Ask her why she did it. Did she not remember that you asked her to keep it to herself? You can speak to your father and let him know that you had planned to tell him โ when you were ready. You may want to rethink what you confide in your mother.
As much as she loves you, you may not be able to trust her to keep information to herself. You can send questions to askharriette harriettecole. By Harriette Cole askharriette harriettecole. Share this: Click to share on Facebook Opens in new window Click to share on Twitter Opens in new window Click to print Opens in new window Click to email a link to a friend Opens in new window Click to share on Reddit Opens in new window. Report an error Policies and Standards Contact Us.
