We were dating over a year before he left and still are dating. KP if it is meant to be it will. Daughter has been with the same boy since they were Sophmores in HS. He attends Embry-Riddle in AZ about miles away.
They see each other over the holidays, and breaks. Both are very busy people. Only time will tell if they will be together after school, but they are committed to each other. You are now at an age where you should think about your future. Look at your SO and decide do they have what it takes to be left behind in a foreign country while pregnant with no family? Are they willing to change jobs every yrs so you can advance in yours? Will they be able to understand that you must take the jets to safety while they ride out the hurricane without power or drinking water?
It is not an easy life, making new friends every few yrs and watching your children cry as they say goodbye to their friends. These are the facts, hard, but true. I almost got married in January but my fiance called off the wedding two days before hand becuase I simply could not talk to her about my job. Are you willing to deal with that?
A lot of military jobs will require your SO to have a security clearance that will require them to be silent about what they do after they leave the Academy. But I now have another boyfriend, miles away, and we make it work. Facebook is awesome to keep in contact with family and friends. Well two months later we started datingβ¦We had an amazing couple of months, we never fought, and we just understood each other.
Well after a couple of months of letters, rare phone calls and texts or messages on Face book, he told me he had made a mistakeβ¦We were now official again. After that he had full access to his phone and computer. He would sometimes even send me goodmorning texts When he came back for Thanksgiving, everything was back to normal and it has been ever since.
