German photographer Bettina Flitner took portraits of clients at the brothel Paradise in Stuttgart, Germany. The men, aged 21 to 73, told her why they visited brothels. Their answers were quite frank and revealing. Why I pay for sex? Women are often a pain in the ass.
They stress me when I haven t got enough time for them. If I want to fuck I go here β and I leave. That s it. A girlfriend often bores me after a short time. And to pay for sex has that certain something. You own the woman. You can do want you want with her. That is power.
My last time? I come to the brothel every six weeks. Sometimes I have sex with the same woman sometimes with another. I like it a bit harder no vanilla sex. I need much sex. It excites me to have always new women. I also go to swingers clubs. But there are often old and ugly women. Sometimes I book a woman from an escort agency. My type? Black or pale skin. Mulatto or from Latvia. No silicone breasts and no injected lips. They perform better. My last time is one week ago. She said that is was the best sex ever.
Business as usual. The price-performance ratio is good here. Why I go the brothel? I would never get women like these here. And I can overstep the limits here. Costs Euros extra. They can have normal breast and a little belly a womanly shape. Since three years I have sex with the same woman. If she likes it? I can only believe, what she is pretending.
In some ways, this project is similar to The Invisible Men , that collects reviews by johns of their escorts. The site is frequented by anti-prostitution advocates and the quotes from johns are disturbing.
