I can understand your frustration, but honestly at the end of the day, anyone that's going to pass up someone that completely fits their list of what they want in a partner just because they didn't make it in 1 category is short sighted and not worth wasting time on anyways.
Hi Patty! I'm sooo happy that you're in a language exchange program! I'm very proud of you for making the important step of learning Spanish. Don't let this one mean person make you feel bad about making friends through this program. Then, when the woman finally gets involved with a bad boy, and he's true to his colors and treats her like dirt this happens ALL the time then the woman complains that there are no good men around.
Meanwhile, she's just dismissed all those good men because they weren't "edgy" enough. In fact on balance more people use it successfully than fail. There was a poll a while ago, I can't find the link right now but you can probably search for it. The general consensus was that OLD is actually quite good. It's just that the ones who fail at it make the most noise. Just be honest. Tell him you were surfing and came across his profile. Hell, my girlfriend showed up in an email that gives weekly updates on local singles.
You know The last time we dated she couldn't even make up any reasons why she dumps me, and admited she acted poorly later on. It's called a break up because it's broken. Even if it's broken because of the way you have behaved in the relationship, it could still be broken beyond repair. I did and that's where she said she didn't want to give me any wrong ideas This was years ago though.
This is getting bad for you and I can see it. His next step is to start separating you from your friends. It's happening. If it gets any worse, you need to get out now.
